On May 27 of last year a man was riding
a candy apple red motor scooter west on First Avenue North in St.
Petersburg. He was crawling along at about ten miles an hour, having
slowed to merge into the left lane because of road construction.
In his lane he followed about thirty feet behind a car. Suddenly
the scooter rocketed forward, racing at the car ahead. He applied
the brakes hard. The scooter flipped on its side. His shoulder took
the initial shock and his helmet whiplashed against the pavement
with a resounding, explosive “whack!”
When he was able to sit up, he heard people saying, “She hit
you! That woman hit you from behind.” He wondered what woman
it was who had been so rude. Mainly he wondered if he could stand
unassisted. In response to questions about how he was, he said,
“Okay.” Cars slowly wove around him and his fallen steed.
Someone righted the scooter, and he was able to push it up onto
the sidewalk himself. Pain was not yet available to indicate the
state of his body.
Attempts to start the engine failed. He pushed it one city block
to an auto air conditioning business, where he asked to use the
phone. Was allowed to. Called a secretary at his office, for this
was the day he did psychotherapy. She came in her huge old Cadillac
and drove him to his lair in a shotgun house on Central Avenue.
Tried to call his wife. No luck. His first client arrived, and he
began his work day with rapidly intensifying pain in his right shoulder.
Told the client he was in an accident on the way to work. At the
end of the session he went into the washroom. In the mirror he saw
that his right shoulder had a grapefruit growing out of it. Called
his wife and asked her to pick him up in one hour. She did so. At
the emergency room the diagnosis was multiple fractures of the collarbone.
Many deep abrasions and bruises became evident over the following
weeks.
What does this have to do with preventative health? The answer –
everything! This incident happened to me. I was told by my family
physician that my physical conditioning was the reason my injuries
from this accident were not life- threatening.
Now, I’m not one of those remarkably built old guys they write
about in the paper, but I swim four or five miles a week, do moderate
gym exercises and Tai Chi almost daily. Maintaining muscle tone
and weight had helped my bones withstand the trauma; muscles hold
everything together, after all. Being an appropriate weight provided
less for gravity to pull to the ground as the vehicle and I slammed
down. Toned shoulder muscles helped prevent further shattering of
my shoulder and held the fragile clavicle together tightly. Strengthened
muscles helped avoid a broken neck, which was likely in that type
of violent whiplash. The helmet protected me from severe head injury,
absorbing energy as it struck the pavement. The “road rash,”
(abrasions) did not become infected, in part, because of an immune
system functioning very well due to diet and supplements.
Another aspect of preventative health was demonstrated during the
recovery period. A great danger, especially for those of us who
are older, is that joints will “freeze up” while recovering
from a severe trauma. I resumed swimming, with my right arm secured
to my body, within two weeks of the incident. It takes a long time
to side stroke a half mile with one arm tied to your chest. When
the orthopedic surgeon examined the injury, he was amazed at the
range of motion and healing taking place because of the exercising
I did. Preventative health can take place after a trauma, and will
reduce both the amount of impairment and its duration.
Of course, the body is not the only part of our being that can benefit
from preventative health practices. In the mental health field,
as in others, many suffer from psychological distress.
During the first week the pain was constant and pain medications
were used, as needed, to control it. This, in turn, reduced the
depression which can occur with severe pain – for that matter,
for less than severe pain. Support is a factor in the healing process,
and my wife was invaluable in assisting me through this time of
impaired mental and physical ability. Although there was an initial
period of pain-filled, semi-sedated living, it was not long before
I began to read again, helping my mind to function normally.
Another factor which held me in good stead through the ordeal was
the lack of bitterness I had toward my “assailant.”
To this day, when folks hear about the accident, they ask if I’ve
got a big lawsuit against her – and seem amazed that there
is none and that bitterness is not present. I don’t even know
who she is. But she did not run over me after I went down. I’m
grateful for that. Frequently, people who are wronged by their bodies
– struck down by an unexpected illness, or accidentally injured
by others – are embittered. They turn on their spiritual beliefs,
lose trust in their healers, and seek vengeance through the courts
or otherwise. For many clients with whom I’ve worked, this
has seemed to be a detriment to their well being – neither
a healing nor a preventative mental health practice.
Being in shape provides extra protection from physical illnesses
and accidents; should you become ill or suffer from an accident,
that very conditioning will help you heal more rapidly, as will
listening to what your body tells you to do. Psychologically, taking
responsibility for your rehabilitation is essential; having a support
system, (it matters not whom or what), is of great assistance; and
avoiding the pitfall of bitterness over having been struck down
avails you of more energy to heal, be less depressed and more hopeful,
and hence in a state of psychological and physical healing.
Charles Larsen, L.C.S.W. has been
practicing psychotherapy and hypnosis for over thirty years. St.
Petersburg. (727) 894-3088.
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