March/April 2001
Articles on the theme "Controlling the Mind"
Good Servant, Bad Master
by Patrick Plaskett
Recognizing how little we control the
mind. How to gain control.
Choosing Love
by Edward Abel
Releasing ourselves from fear and other
negative energies.
The Greatest Discovery
by Betty Perry
The Silva Method approach to controlling
the mind.
Past Life Alert
by June G. Bletzer
How productively to use our mental
and physical links with past-lives.
Calming the Unruly Mind
by George J. Felos
A lawyer's account of how meditation
can help control the mind.
Moving Into Mindfulness
by Jeanne Fortunato
Of creative visualization, yoga and
meditation.
Thoughtful Use of Reason
by Dolores T. Puterbaugh
Impulse; the traps of the Ostrich,
the Foolish Optimist and the Hopeful Christian; reason and principal.
Your Mind... A Control Issue
by Ernesto J. Fernandez
What is the mind? Is it ours? How can
we control it?
Battle For The Mind
by Charles Larsen
External vs. internal mind control.
Hypnosis and psychotherapy.
Human Vs. Divine Mind
by Rev. Pat Cross
Choosing to use the mind consciously
rather than trying to control the mind. Becoming at-one with the Divine
Mind.
A Wild Horse
by Steve Shealy, PhD
Taming the mind to experience mindfulness.
Informal and formal meditation.
Other Feature Articles
Natural Health Q & A
by Maria Moraca
Of blood sugar levels and chelation
therapy.
What is... Natural Progesterone?
by Vanessa Lee Hurst
The differences between natural and
synthetic progesterone. The relationship to estrogen. How natural progesterone
can help both women and men.
PeopleTalk
Readers' Open Forum
Minerals from Mother Earth
by Judy Power
Features stones for March & April.
Agate and Elestial.
NEW SECTION!
COMMON-SENSE SOLUTIONS
David Findlay
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Calming the Unruly Mind
George J. Felos

A nineteenth century saint was asked, "How can one realize God?"
He replied, "One must think of the Lord incessantly, like a lawyer
does of his cases." Apparently, even the mystics understand how our
minds become saturated with our legal work. Especially while litigating,
I am amazed how my mind constantly percolates and churns the case facts,
issues, witnesses, strategies, and so on. Truly incessant, my mind will
offer its suggestions while I'm sleeping, eating and, in my last case, showering.
I laughed upon realizing that I couldn't even scrub without my mental voice
presenting some new angle on a potential evidentiary dispute.
There's nothing wrong with being mentally consumed with our work. The
problem is turning down the mental volume and slowing our mental speed when
our work does not demand this involvement. Unfortunately, overuse of our
mental faculty often makes it difficult to relax the mind. We suffer the
fate of the sorcerer's apprentice. Remember the movie Fantasia? Mickey Mouse
disobediently uses his master's magic to animate broomsticks to fill a vat
with buckets of well water (the apprentice's task), but when the job is
completed, he can't stop the magical workers from dumping more water and
flooding the castle. We have created these vast and useful intellects to
do our bidding yet, without learning how to operate the shut-off switch,
our willing servants can demonize us by preventing the relaxation, renewal
and inner peace that are necessary for our well-being.
Meditation is mind-control: you learning how to control your own mind.
Control does not mean subjugation. The mind is obviously an essential tool
and appreciates kind treatment.
The process of meditation is simple. Sit comfortably in a quiet place
with your spine erect, head straight and eyes closed. Observe carefully
the procession of thoughts and sensations. Notice what is passing through
your awareness, without any need to alter your experience or change your
thoughts or sensations. Let your awareness be unconnected to the objects
of its attention. Keep your attention clear, yet relaxed. If insufficient
energy is given to your attention, you tend to daydream or doze off. If
too much effort is used, the process becomes strained and the mind becomes
fatigued or agitated. Find the balance between slothfulness and trying too
hard. A good meditation posture helps to maintain this balance.
Most meditation systems use a 'focal point,' a place to return the attention
to when you become caught in the mind's wanderings. The most common focal
point is the sensation of the breath as it enters and exits the tip of the
nostrils. As you are meditating, focus your attention on this sensation
of the breath. If a thought arises, watch it pass by. Sometimes, though,
one thought will trigger a chain of thoughts. You might think of a particular
client and before you know it you're mentally reviewing the causes of action
for the pleading you will be drafting later that week. Your focal point
enables you to pull yourself out of that daydream. No matter how often your
attention strays, gently but firmly bring your attention back to your focal
point.
Different traditions use different focal points. Early Christian monks
were fond of using the sensation of the abdomen rising and falling caused
by diaphragmatic movement. Many Eastern traditions use mantras, which are
repetitive sounds internally or externally chanted. Many Western monks intone
the Jesus prayer: "Lord Jesus Christ have mercy on my soul." All
of these focal points share a common principle: give the attention a home
base, a place to rest and return to during the meditation process. Pick
a focal point that appeals to you and stick with it.
While the process of meditation is simple, it is far from easy. If your
unruly mind has been your master for your entire life, it's not about to
now compliantly surrender control. We lawyers think of ourselves as powerful
and highly competent advocates, accomplishing remarkable things by the energy
of our will and talent. If you hanker for a lesson in humility, try meditating
and see how your power of attention holds up against the errant movements
of your mind. See how long you can focus on the sensation of the breath
before your attention is diverted.
The first principle of the mind is that, at any one moment, there is
only one object of its attention. Because mental attention jumps so quickly
from object to object (three or four times per second, according to scientists),
many mistakenly believe that the conscious mind is simultaneously occupied
with numerous objects of attention.
Meditation-the practice of awareness without judgment-slows down the
mental procession allowing you to see each 'mind moment' as an individual
entity. When this occurs, you may notice something else. Each thought or
sensation has a beginning and an end and there is a space between. It's
like being stopped at a railroad crossing and watching the passing freight
train. When the train is whizzing by, the individual boxcars seem to blur
together. Yet, if the train slows, you can begin to see each boxcar as a
distinct object and, if the train is slowed sufficiently, you can see the
space between each of the cars.
And what is there in the spaces between your thoughts and sensations?
And for that matter, what are the benefits of meditation and who is it that
is observing all that passes? That is for each of us to discover. Give it
a try. Like any new endeavor, regular practice is essential. Select a quiet
time and place where you won't be disturbed. Set aside fifteen or twenty
minutes for meditation every day and do it for one month. The results may
surprise you. Good Luck!
George J. Felos has practiced meditation for twenty-seven
years and has given many meditation seminars and workshops. He practices
law at Felos & Felos, P.A., from his new location in downtown Dunedin,
FL. (727) 736-1402. ProofG@aol.com
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